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Okay, so I came up with this fun list of questions for couples because, first of all, I love a good question game. Secondly, while I love my kids, I need some new talking points! I can’t be the only one, right?

Fun question challenge for married couples! 45 questions to ask your spouse, your friend, or even just yourself! Great conversation starters for date night! #datenight

We’re not newlyweds anymore. Scott knows so much about me. He’s heard pretty much all my stories & I’ve heard his (multiple times). Also, I’m a stay at home mom, so the only interesting thing I have to say most of the time starts out “guess what David & Farrah did today?”

And it’s not just my convos with Scott either! I swear, anytime anyone asks me something, for some reason it is impossible for me to answer without mentioning my kids! I have no clue why! #momlife right? 🤣

Sample convo:

Normal person: What’s the weather like?
Me: It’s 72 degrees, partly cloudy with a 60% chance of rain. I have kids so I check the weather hourly. That way I know if we can play outside.

I don’t even understand. I can’t just answer “oh it’s pretty nice out.” 🤦‍♀️

So anyway, I was in desperate need of something to talk about so I hit up the internet looking for a good list of questions to spark conversation. Turns out, most of the ones out there are pretty lame.

So I took the few good questions I found and combined them with a lot of my own and came up with this list.

Fun question challenge for married couples! 45 questions to ask your spouse, your friend, or even just yourself! Great conversation starters for date night! #datenight

45 Fun (& random) Couples Questions

  1. How would you spend your 100th birthday?
  2. The electricity goes out for 24 hours, how would you spend your time?
  3. Similarly, what if there was a long term world-wide power outage? What end of times skills would you contribute?
  4. If your appearance was altered beyond recognition, how would you prove your identity to me?
  5. If you could change your name, what would you choose?
  6. If you were famous for something, what would you want that to be?
  7. What movie/tv show best portrays the story of your life? Is it a comedy, drama, action, etc.?
  8. What would you do if someone stole your identity and you couldn’t get it back?
  9. You’re awake at 3am and can’t get back to sleep. What do you do?
  10. If you had to restart your life (relationships, education, etc.), where would you start?
  11. What would your life be like if you said yes to everything?
  12. What is your favorite super hero? Which one would you want to be?
  13. If you could be paid to do anything, what would you do?
  14. If you had to teach something, what would you teach?
  15. You’re stuck in an elevator for 4 hours. What items do you wish you had?
  16. If you had to create a blog what would it be about?
  17. What do you value more, honesty or kindness?
  18. If money did not exist, how would you spend your days?
  19. What are three goals you have had for over a year?
  20. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
  21. What was the last song you sang to yourself? Why?
  22. If you knew you had 30 days to live, how would you spend that time?
  23. What would you do if a fire destroyed your house?
  24. What would you do if a tornado came toward you while you were driving?
  25. What would you do if someone broke into your home while you were there?
  26. What recent news story caught your attention?
  27. You want to surprise your spouse with sex in an unusual place, where would it be?
  28. Imagine you’re holding a picnic basket and you’re in the park. What is in it? (When I envisioned this, I saw a lone pack of Sour Patch kids in my picnic basket, wtf I don’t even like Sour Patch kids 🤣 )
  29. If you could have witnessed any biblical event, which one would you choose?
  30. If we could just drop what we’re doing and go do something fun, what would it be?
  31. If you could store up only one hour’s worth of memory in your mind, which hour of our marriage would you want to remember?
  32. What is the nicest compliment anyone has given you?
  33. You’re a photographer. How do you photograph your spouse? What are they wearing?
  34. What is your favorite family tradition?
  35. What is your earliest memory?
  36. Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
  37. When making decisions, do you put more trust in facts or in feelings?
  38. If you could possess any talent in one of the arts, what would you choose?
  39. What 5 things do you like that start with the letter “L”?
  40. What 5 things do you like that start with the letter “A”?
  41. What 5 things do you like that start with the letter “S’?
  42. How would you spend $1,000 extra cash?
  43. What would you do if you had to live on a mountain without warning?
  44. You live in the last TV show/Movie you watched, what was it?
  45. If you could only wear one outfit for the rest of your life, what would you wear?

Hope you enjoyed this question challenge! Also, I know I titled it “couples,” but truthfully it can be fun for anyone to answer. Just avoid question #27 if you’re not a couple 🙃

**Also, I’ve deleted that extra #46 multiple times, but for some reason it isn’t disappearing…